Everything that is of my kind, in nature and history,
speaks to me, praises me, spurs me on, comforts me -
everything else I don't hear or forget right away.
We are always only in our own company.
― Frederich Nietzsche, The Gay Science, note 166

How best should we interpret this? Tragically or triumphantly? To have this quoted boldly here may suggest a triumphal interpretation: that “my kind” refers to humankind, emphasizing our shared humanity and mutual support. However, the tragic reading seems more fitting: that, first and foremost, we are individuals, too often lost within ourselves. Nietzsche’s words remind us that our perceptions are inherently selective, that we are drawn to what affirms our nature and beliefs. This selective perception can isolate us, making it challenging to see beyond our own experiences and truly connect with others.

Our aim should be to look at reality with new eyes, to explore truths that our individuality blinds us to. In an increasingly complex world, the likelihood that your neighbor shares your nuanced understanding is decreasing. Many are just surviving, lacking the capacity or will to engage deeply. Who wishes to be lonely and without a neighbor? Bless the internet for providing everyone with the opportunity to connect with an infinite set of neighbors, yet the challenge remains: finding genuine understanding and shared experiences within this vast digital landscape.

Email me as you wish. I will do my best to reach back to you. I also respond to X dms too!

- alborz